Why Japan?
A few days back i got a mail from a stranger who was impressed looking at my blogs that he wanted to ask me the following question. Well, the content of the question made me write to him back and never cared his whereabouts.
What makes (and always has made) Japan and it's people, culture, food, history, geography, etc., so unique and compelling to you, compared to other countries ? Or if you've traveled to Japan before, what made (and still makes) Japan, it's geography, people and culture, so beautiful, unique and compelling to you ?This was my reply to the stranger...
Japan has been an un-explored nation by the world nations and even today it is not well understood. Though you may find books and articles from different people mentioning their experience and their inferences. I am sure reading every thing will feed you with contradicting ideas about Japan and Japanese culture and people.
I have known Japan and its people for the last 5 years.I have known other developed nations and I certainly feel Japan is a unique place that I am very much impressed staying in this nation.
Let me brief you its uniqueness from my viewpoint on various factors before going on to the fact as why it is so compelling to me.
The various traits that you find about Japan and its people:
1.Japan is geographically located where the country has a pleasant atmosphere all through the year. The country has rich rains and sun. The country also experiences cold and heat that's tolerable and enjoyable.
2.Japanese love nature. This love for nature has come as they worship nature in their culture and religion. When greenery is worshiped, nature is preserved. So nature original beauty is preserved.
3.Japan has a culture of their own and they are proud of their culture even in today's modern world that even today's generation who has a modern vision try to imbibe their culture.
4.Japanese mainly speak their own language and they are not still comfortable with English. Japanese language is always spoken with respect and this has affected their thinking.When a Japanese has to express a strong criticism, they appear mild and humble in expressing strong view points in their language, but their facial expressions and their speech tones convey rest of the feelings. Certainly this becomes a deceiving factor for the foreigners as they miss-understand a Japanese view point.
5.In Japanese shintoism, they worship their ancestors, so respecting elders is a in-born behavior of any Japanese. This in-born behavior has developed a Japanese mindset as being kind and very patient.
6.Japanese language has Kanji, a pictorial representation of words. So Japanese has a in-built characteristic where they form opinions about peoples on their behavior and appearances.
7.Japanese has a traditional food culture. Japan has a food culture of eating rice and sea foods and this binds every Japanese to their country.
8. From the age of Samurai's Japanese cannot accept embarrassment in their society or in any form.
The above said traits has made the nation and its people in the following way.
1. Japanese love to live in a community as they are comfortable in their own lifestyles and practices. So they look conservative to some but their very nature to avoid embarrassment make them very kind to other people.
2. The culture of worshiping nature has got them the characteristic of keeping their country clean.
3. Japan subways,metros or any remote place is safe all through day and night. You will not find any tampered dispensers in the country. This is their characteristics to avoid embarrassment and the crime rate in Japan is very very low compared to other developed nations.They try to live in harmony though they carry huge differences amongst them.So naturally they have the maturity to control their temperments.
4.Cartoon and toy industry is famous here as their imaginary traits of such pictures and shapes into real world has let Japan leader in these industries.
5. As the unique community live in these small pieces of Island, they have not migrated much even though Japanese colonized many countries in the 19th century. The community has learnt to live in small pockets hence miniaturization of things was a necessity more than invention in Japan. It is the result that you see many miniaturized products of various kinds.
6. 80% of the population are middle class and salaried persons so the society has always lives in harmony without much society status differences.
7. Japanese business men's are similar to any other businessman that you can find in the world except for that fact that Japanese business behaviors is a culmination of all the traits described above that their business decision are confined and restricted on certain aspects that becomes highly misleading to foreigners.
8. I am sure that no developed nation in the world can boast of a terrorist free nation except Japan.
9. As the country has a homogeneous race, culture and language throughout, the possibility of differences among different among doesn't exist as it is observed in other countries.
10.The culmination of their characteristics makes Japanese to treat foreigners of even third world and under developed with dignity that makes such gaijins enjoy their living in Japan.
11. Well, it is certainly obvious that this conservative society cannot treat a gaijin as one among them but they certainly don't provoke them on such alienations.
Now I will explain you why it is compelling that I Stay here.
When you live in a society that is not provoking you in any way, you have no reason to hate them.
When you live in a society that enjoys peace and harmony, you will like them.
When you live in a society that respects you, you will feel proud to stay amongst them.
When you live in a country that leads the worlds economy you are bound to enjoy its by-factors.
When you live in a country that is terror free, I feel it is the safe place in today's world.
When you live in a country that makes world latest products in every industry you will certainly feel proud to be a part of them.
Saying all this I feel I have answered his question in culmination.
kaAma->krOdha->mOha->lObha->maDha->mAtsarya->bhAya
The Vedantic theory behind the psychology of “kaama” is a very simple and elegant one. But it is also a mordant and accurate commentary on the universal human condition.Bhagavat Gita has given immense insight into this Philosophy.
“kaAma”
The root of “kaAma”, says the Gita, lies not in a person’s mind. It lies in the myriad objects of delight and pleasure that abound in the world. They generate or arouse a variety of tantalizing sensations and titillating impressions by invading a person's senses. The invasion then takes complete possession of the Mind.
Once the Mind is overpowered “kaama” gradually paralyzes the Will. Once the human Will goes into coma, “kAma” manifests itself as deep, raging and uncontrollable appetite for promiscuous self-gratification. This selfish appetite must be whetted no matter what. It is a compulsion. And the only way to do so is indulgence, at any cost. This is precisely the way that man’s state of attachment (or enchantment, beguilement, inebriation, enamor etc.) is ushered in. In plain and simple language, “kaama” is abject human bondage to the Pleasure-Principle of life.
It is precisely such indulgence in “kaama” that modern Consumerism, the Faith that today rules the entire world, lustily cheers and promotes. “Have a good time”, “Feel good”, “Just do it!”, “Life is for enjoyment! Have fun!”, “Chill out! It’s Saturday night out!” etc. are just a few of the oft-broadcasted messages constantly dinned into our collective sub-conscious by the “high-priests of Consumerism” viz.: the advertising and mass-communication media. Through alluring market-place promotions and seductive slogans, refined and perfected as creative art-form over several decades of the last century, these
“high-priests of marketing” have achieved truly fantastic success throughout the world in their mission to apotheosize commonplace commercial jingles,glorifying the “Feel good factor” or the “’Have-fun’ habit” in life, into sacred mantras of abiding faith for peoples of the world.
“krOdha”
Not all sensual appetites can be whetted at all times. Many of our desires cannot be satisfied so easily. Un-fulfilled “kaama” inevitably leads to “krOdha” i.e. frustrated Desire or longing that is accompanied by feelings of anger, resentment, impatience, deprivation and disenfranchisement in life.
If there is so much anger and hatred around the world today, it is chiefly because people are unable to satisfy many of their deepest desires in life, big and small. While the Consumerist faith does indeed inspire everyone with the dazzling promise of “Fun-in-life” Ideal, it cannot, however, provide everyone with the necessary means to attain it. And it is precisely that
yawning gap between inspiration and realization, between desire and fulfillment that is the source of all anger, resentment, frustration and self-loathing amongst people in the world.
“mOha”
When desires (“kaama”) in life are not satisfied, disappointment builds up. When the steam of disappointment swells, the engine of Anger (“krOdha”) cranks up. Pent-up anger in a person invariably leads to “mOha”, an unhinged mental state where he/she gets increasingly out-of-touch with reality. When one loses touch with reality, one begins to suffer rapid loss of capacity for right-thinking and right-resolution. (In modern clinical psychology this state of mind is usually associated with the condition called “severe manic depression” which, in most cases, is traced to mental disorders caused by deep-seated, pent-up anger and disappointment with oneself for not being able to fulfill desires). Perverse attitudes then quickly begin to seep into one’s personality, deeply warping and corroding one’s sense of life-values.
“lObha”
A mind so deeply afflicted with “mOha”,Vedanta tells us, is soon overtaken by yet another feeling that comes rolling along quickly on the syndromic cycle of “kaama”. This one is called “lObha” –- greed, unbridled lust, avarice.
Lust within Man’s heart represents the final triumph of human Desire over human Will. It is the critical state of mind a person reaches when he or she becomes utterly insensitive to moral imperatives in life. The eternal ethical question in Life, whether the “End justifies the Means”, becomes utterly irrelevant to him/her. The End as represented in the object/objects
of personal desire, by whatever means realized,becomes supreme goal in life. It is the moment when the person begins to believe with all the conviction at his command that Pleasure -- “kaama” – indeed is absolute ideal in itself, justifying and overriding any Means.
“maDha”
Whenever “lObha”, lust, is satisfied, feelings of extreme exultation follow. When Desire’s triumph over Will is completed, it cannot help indulging in a bit of gloating, a bit of self-congratulation and vainglory. A person then usually turns arrogant,
haughty and conceited. This new transformation of personality is what is called “madha”. When “kaama” preens its feathers one may easily recognize its colors to be the signs of “madha”.
“mAtsarya”
Those who are vainglorious i.e. they that are in the grip of “madha”, often slip into envy, “mAtsarya”.The vainglorious are always jealous of those they perceive to be their superiors. They simply cannot rest content with their lot but constantly covet the power and prestige of those more exalted than themselves. This is another form of extreme “kaama”, and what in the modern day is often recognized as “overweening ambition” in a person. The ancient Greeks had another special name for it –- they called it “hubris”. It is, in fact, a very advanced form of the rabid human affliction called “keeping-up-with-the-Joneses” syndrome. This sort of ambition is an extremely pathological form of “kaama” --- the sort that does not let a person rest content with satisfying one’s own desires but urges him/her on to adopt the desires of others too as one’s very own,and makes them slaves of those too!
“bhAya”
By the time a man has traversed the cycle of the full spectrum of feelings of “kaama” --- beginning with attachment, “kaama”, “krOdha”,“mOha”, “lObha”, “madha” and “mAtsarya” --- it is certain his whole personality has been severely ravaged. The mind is ripe and ready then to be possessed now by Fear, “bhaya”.
“Bhaya” manifests itself in personal behavior characterized by deep insecurities, restiveness, a nagging but nameless sense of loss etc. When a man is afflicted with such “bhaya” he fears that his deepest desires may not get fulfilled before
the curtains drop on his lifetime. His greatest fear --- dark fear hidden deep within the cavern of the human sub-conscious –-- is he may simply pass away from this world before having experienced all of its alluring delights and seductive pleasures. To him hell itself is nothing but untimely death befalling him before the burning thirst for Pleasure has been fully slaked.
It is precisely this sort of “kaama” that is known to often afflict some persons in the twilight of their lives when, knowing that their time on earth is nearing its end, they suddenly turn berserk and go all out to enjoy to the very hilt, in a sort of mad binge,all the sensual pleasures they had probably denied themselves earlier, and all with a vengeance or gusto quite unbecoming of their age.
It is in that fateful moment that "bhaya" and "kaama" come together in a tight coital embrace, and when the cycle of “kaama” too gets a fresh lease of momentum,and signalling, as it were, the birth of another desire inside the human heart....
And so, indeed, revolves the great inexorable cycle of life called “kaama”, where man's desires endlessly mutate and multiply, all in an endless stream of cosmic continuum... And wherein Man is but mere hapless, enmeshed cog.
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